Friday, September 4, 2009

Virginity

Last night, while I was flipping the channels, I've noticed that Tyra Banks was on Oxygen. I was surprise to see her on Oxygen, because I knew that the Tyra Banks' show was taken off Oxygen.

The episode was basically about teenagers and virginity.

I didn't watch the whole show. I've only watched like the first 10 minutes. I don't know if it was a rerun or not, but I recall watching an episode about the same things months ago. But, I have caught it in the middle. Maybe, it was the same episode. The same thing happen in the episode. The girls who was having sex wanted to let their mother know.

The first girl on the show was 14 years old. She lost her virginity at 13 years old. That's sad. Her story is sad. She slept with 4 different guys.

She slept with one guy - her first and after he slept with her, the next day, he acted like she didn't exist. He didn't call her or anything. I think they go to the same school, if I am not mistaken.

The young girl slept with another guy and he did the same thing. She didn't exist to him the next day. The girl went on to sleep with a third boy, at a football game, behind a school building. She was only used for that night. He didn't contact her the next day.

This is so sad, because if the three guys goes to school with her that has to be embarrassing. They probably talk about her like dirt, amongst one another.

The fourth guy, she said she'd known for 2 years. They were like best friends. She slept with him more than once. Yet, he dumped her. She told Tyra that he told her that they would never talk, etc. She cried talking about him.

What's even sad about the young girl's story is that she created a my space account and posted sexy pictures of herself to get guys attention. She told Tyra that she loves getting attention from guys.

In my humble opinion, this girl doesn't love herself. I know that a lot of people feel that a lot of girls go out and have sex, because they are looking for a father's love, if there is no father present in her life. I don't know if the girl's father was around or not. As I have said before, I didn't watch the whole show. I've turned the channel, when her mother came out.

A lot of girls have fathers in their lives. Good fathers and they still go out and have sex to fit in.

When are girls going to realize that you don't need a guy's attention to love yourself? I know that some people don't believe in God and some that claims to believe in God don't care what The Bible says about sex. But, having sex before marriage is a sin. God doesn't care how much a woman claims to love a man or a man claims to love a woman. Sex was designed for marriage.

These days, a lot of people thinks it's cool to walk in the "Friends with benefits" shoes. A real friend wouldn't go that low. Diseases are real. It doesn't care if a person wants to play with someone else. It will grab a hold of you and do some damage. It can take you to your grave and don't care.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Some people try to make it seems as if, there is someone seriously wrong with a person if they are still a virgin. Nowadays, if a girl is 13 years old and a virgin, she may be teased about it.

Virginity is a treasure. It's worth a lot and that's why so many people try to collect it from someone. If you are a virgin, no matter what your age is. You can be 50 years old. Be proud! Walk with your head up. Don't be ashamed!

If a man really loves a woman, he would marry her. He would not try to pressure her into having sex with him. Only a man that doesn't love himself, will try to pressure a woman into having sex with him.

I will not leave the woman out. Some women try to pressure men into having sex as well. If a woman really loves a man, she would wait until marriage, before she tries to claim his golden prize.


As for young people If a boy tells a girl he loves her, he would truly mean it with his heart. He wouldn't ask her for sex. The girl wouldn't ask the guy for sex, if she truly loves him. Boys and girls would wait until marriage.


It's easy to find a broken heart. But what about finding a whole, healthy heart?


Love will not send a person from one person to another person. True love will stop at one person.

I Was Called A Nerd

Tuesday at work, a coworker of mine, called me a nerd, because I wouldn't do something that she wanted me to do. I've told her thank you and that she has just given me a compliment.